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Post by Marina on Jun 19, 2014 9:33:39 GMT
I didnt really know where to post this but I guess MBTI is the most fitting, since it's kind of related to it...
So here it goes; my energy is drained extremely easily from being with other people. When I spend a day with a friend I will start spacing out, daydreaming and wishing I was back at home, by myself, to recharge after two hours. Whom I spend time with, where I spend my time and what i spend my time doing has an unusually big impact on my mood and energy level. I used to think I had depression but then I thought "probably not, I can be extremely happy a lot of the time too" so I started considering Bipolar disorder...
Basically, I feel like the barriers between myself and the extrernal world are extremely thin and I can't handle a lot of stimulation from the outside. I did the Myers Briggs Type Indicator Test and it turned out I am 100% introverted
My sun is in the 12th house, conjuncting pluto Neptune is in my first house my moon is in the 8th house and i have a scorpio stellium
So i started getting into psychic abilities some time ago I did identify with the defintion of "empaths" to some degree, because feelings and moods influence me so much but i dont feel them as my own, i am very guarded actually, having so much scorpio influence, so all it really does to me is drain me
wow that was a lot if any of you have read this far; do any of you have the same problems with introversion do any of you know more about psychic abilities or how i can use this "curse" productively in any way? because right now i dont feel like its any sort of ability, its more of a disability...
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Post by Os on Jun 19, 2014 16:26:01 GMT
I think it mostly has to do with your attitude towards it, you can see it either as a gift or as a curse. My grandmother is a Leo with a Pisces Moon and a GIANT 12th and 6th house. She used to be deeply interested in Astrology when she was younger, she used to be very psychic and have very accurate premonitory dreams and perceptions. But when she realised she could KNOW what would happen, she became terryfied. Closed up her own perception as much as she could, never opened an Astrology book again. Now she complains a lot about health, all the time, she polarized everything onto her 6th house and buried her 12th house abilites completely. I know it must be scary and difficult, I think the best you can do is look for people who have psychic perceptions and learn from them how to cope with that kind of thing, help you not be scared of yourself. Wish I knew more, good luck though.
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Post by astronoodles on Jun 20, 2014 0:48:31 GMT
I totally understand what you're going through! I have my Moon in the 12th, Neptune in the 8th, and a Sun-Neptune aspect. I often feel others' emotions, especially the negative ones. I will give you some advice and such I've picked up over the years: 1) I get drained, too. Don't worry so much, but make sure to take some time to yourself! It doesn't hurt to give yourself some time, especially after being in crowds. Take breaks every now and then, come back home and make some "you time", and be patient. Our bodies are a bit more sensitive than others'. : ) 2) I don't know all that much, but I know they can be scary (even when they're great!). They also take patience, confidence, and work to really use beneficially. 3) Some ways you can use your abilities productively include: - Using it to understand how others work better! (Which is nice to have when you need it/to give advice)
- It's easier to help them if you know how they're feeling (especially if they can't exactly explain it- believe me, this has been useful in the past.)
- Their positive emotions are nice if you surround yourself with them (I kid you not, I have literally helped my own depression by surrounding myself with positive people)
- Being able to feel their emotions helps you make them feel comfortable around you. You can adjust your behavior accordingly and make friends a bit easier than others who have to guess.
- Eventually (or even immediately) it's easier to weed out the bad people from the good, so you can surround yourself with positivity.
Overall, it's difficult but very fulfilling once you know what to do with it! There are quite a few articles online, you just have to look! The biggest thing to do is surround yourself with positivity. That can mean a lot of things, from giving yourself some you time to finding really optimistic people to doing things you like/starting a new hobby! If you have anymore questions, go ahead and ask. I hope this helps, and remember, there's always someone who understands! : )
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Post by Marina on Jun 21, 2014 11:55:12 GMT
But when she realised she could KNOW what would happen, she became terryfied. Closed up her own perception as much as she could, never opened an Astrology book again. Now she complains a lot about health, all the time, she polarized everything onto her 6th house and buried her 12th house abilites completely.
Thank you for the reply! I agree that it probably is a lot about embracing it and seeing the good in it! If you try to supress it, you will literally become depressed (from "pressing it down"), which can also lead to physical ailments... i think the best way to deal with it is to try and not fight it "what you resist, persist" if you accept it, the good aspects will outweigh the bad ones ^.^
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Post by Marina on Jun 21, 2014 12:41:58 GMT
The biggest thing to do is surround yourself with positivity. That can mean a lot of things, from giving yourself some you time to finding really optimistic people to doing things you like/starting a new hobby! If you have anymore questions, go ahead and ask. I hope this helps, and remember, there's always someone who understands! : ) Yeah I guess awareness is always the first step to dealing with your "problems" I cant always choose what to surround myself with, but i can be more aware of it and plan some nice me-time and positivity every day Thank you!! A lot of time i feel quite isolated having sun in the 12th house, like i am not allowed to ask for help, i really appreciate your response and help ^.^ <3
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Post by Selene on Jul 2, 2014 2:31:31 GMT
I think you just need to allow yourself ample alone time, and make sure you take care of yourself! Take the time you need to recharge after social situations, and make sure that you surround yourself with understanding people who accept you for who you are.
I don't really consider myself to be "psychic" about emotions or an empath, exactly, but I am very affected by the emotions specifically of those who are close to me. I also have a lot of emotions of my own, and need a lot of time to process them on my own. And I think you need to allow yourself to do this. Maybe try journalling, if you don't already? Writing is a great way to get your emotions out, and sort out your thoughts.
And I agree with acas about surrounding yourself with positivity. I think that's really the best thing you can do - remaining optimistic and loving yourself for who you are. ^.^
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