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Post by solarflare on Jul 9, 2014 1:49:09 GMT
Let's discuss what to look for in a chart for our relationships with our mothers. I like to use my moon sign and compare it with my mom's moon sign. It describes are relationship SO much better than if we just compared our Sun signs! You guys should try it For me, both my mom and I are Aries Suns. Should help us relate to each other more, no? Wrong. Our Moon signs are Capricorn (me) and Gemini (her), so it's actually hard for us to see eye-to-eye. A lot of times I feel like she can't focus on one thing for too long, she doesn't give enough attention to me sometimes, and she is a curious person and wants to talk about ANYTHING to anyone. It can get frustrating for me, because I don't open up easily with anyone and especially her since she and I live on separate parts of the country. I'm way too quiet and reserved for her to have the kind of communication she'd like to have with me. It just feels uncomfortable trying to bond with her most of the time. What basic things do you guys look for in a chart if you want to examine your relationship with a parent?
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Post by bl0gger on Jul 9, 2014 2:43:17 GMT
I absolutely agree with you about looking at moon signs. My mother and I are opposite moon signs (Virgo and Pisces) and I feel as though I constantly need to remind her what we're fighting/talking about. She takes everything incredibly personally, even when it's meant to be constructive on my end.
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Post by Os on Jul 9, 2014 3:52:33 GMT
My mom and I also have the same Sun sign! We can get on really well or just terribly. One second it can be great, we can chat for hours and literally the next second I can't stand her, she gets on my nerves really easily. Our Moon Signs are Gemini and Aquarius, which should actually be pretty alright?? But maybe I'm gonna blame my own Moon for this, Gemini Moon tends to be a bit... super easily irritable -especially at home-, plus my Pluto is opposing my Moon so meh.
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Post by Calli on Jul 9, 2014 20:50:46 GMT
I was supposed to be born on my Mother's Birthday - instead I was born 5 days later. She's Pisces Sun, Taurus Moon, I'm Aries Sun, Pisces Moon. I think the Pisces and Pisces helps us relate to each other very well, but the Taurus - Aries causes a loooooot of Clashing. Plus, my Pluto is in the Fourth House.
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Post by astronoodles on Jul 18, 2014 20:01:31 GMT
It's really strange for me. My mother is a Cancer with an Aquarius moon, and I'm a Taurus with a Gemini moon. Should be just fine?? Nope. She's very manipulative and we don't get along well. I've looked at her ascendant and mercury to see if that would help, and it kind of has! Her Asc. is Libra and mine is Cancer. This helps me understand that she sees things a lot different than me and it kind of annoys me.
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Post by Os on Jul 19, 2014 1:56:47 GMT
It's really strange for me. My mother is a Cancer with an Aquarius moon, and I'm a Taurus with a Gemini moon. Should be just fine?? Nope. She's very manipulative and we don't get along well. I've looked at her ascendant and mercury to see if that would help, and it kind of has! Her Asc. is Libra and mine is Cancer. This helps me understand that she sees things a lot different than me and it kind of annoys me. It's the same for me. My mom is an Aqua Moon, I'm a Gemini Moon, sometimes we get along pretty well especially when it comes to intellectual stuff, like she taught me astrology and stuff. But then she's also overprotective and I really can't stand that side of her, so our relationship can get pretty awful. I have Pluto opposing my Moon though, so that explains, have you considered the aspects to your Moon?
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Post by astronoodles on Jul 27, 2014 0:10:52 GMT
It's really strange for me. My mother is a Cancer with an Aquarius moon, and I'm a Taurus with a Gemini moon. Should be just fine?? Nope. She's very manipulative and we don't get along well. I've looked at her ascendant and mercury to see if that would help, and it kind of has! Her Asc. is Libra and mine is Cancer. This helps me understand that she sees things a lot different than me and it kind of annoys me. It's the same for me. My mom is an Aqua Moon, I'm a Gemini Moon, sometimes we get along pretty well especially when it comes to intellectual stuff, like she taught me astrology and stuff. But then she's also overprotective and I really can't stand that side of her, so our relationship can get pretty awful. I have Pluto opposing my Moon though, so that explains, have you considered the aspects to your Moon? I have! And I've also considered the house (it's actually the 12th house, which talks about true stuff). I has a Moon-Mars one that really explains it well, too. : >
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Post by xXxCometxXx on Aug 9, 2014 22:38:28 GMT
My Mum and I have a very strange relationship: she's an Aquarius Sun with Moon in Cancer and Ascendant in Cancer, whilst I'm a Pisces Sun with Aquarius Moon and Ascendant in Leo - so she's quite a emotional, sentimental lady and that has never really resonated with me at all in my childhood because I'm virtually the opposite.
It's strange really because we don't share any planet placements or planetary positions in our charts other than our Neptunes are in sextile with our Pluto, though her's is Scorpio Neptune in house 5 to Virgo Pluto in 3, whilst mine is Capricorn Neptune in house 6 to Sagittarius Pluto in house 5. This would pretty much explain why we have very little in common as mother and daughter, and how we've tended to clash more frequently though not as badly as I have done with my mother - whilst she's very quick to shout and scream and use her emotions in her arguments, I'm (again) exactly the opposite and I barely even raise my voice or summon any kind of emotion.
Yet having said that most of what we share together is through our experiences, especially after my parents divorced and she needed to lean on me a lot for support - maybe the lack of shared aspects/planets are the keys to what have brought us together by what we've gone through? We were always better friends than we were family and even to this day that's still very much the case.
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Post by Vern on Jun 21, 2020 21:18:48 GMT
Great article. I am dealing with a few of these issues as well..
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